Why is it always so extreme why does having an unusual kink always make u a pedo fml 😭😭
”well the dead serious answer is that accusing someone of something that’s reliably considered as indefensibly vile by much of society, such as molesting children, is a great way to socially isolate that person by making others wary of affiliating with them (even if the accusations are false, do you want to risk being friends with someone who some people will inevitably still think molested children?) and also seemingly validates putting that under intensive scrutiny, since being intensely critical of any perceived sexual misconduct then becomes a matter of protecting The Children from a potential.
there’s also the fact that a lot of people, even self-proclaimed progressive people, have absolutely no handle on their disgust response and automatically affiliate anyone who engages in any sexual activity that grosses them out - whether it’s pet play, bondage, scst, or just queer people fucking - with every other sexual transgression they can think of, including abuse against children.